Your Dojo Isn’t Preparing You for Violence

A friend told me last week he teaches karate on Tuesdays and self-defense on Thursdays. Like they’re two different things. They are two different things. But they weren’t supposed to be. Originally, martial arts were about self-defense. That was the whole point. Somewhere along the way, though, most of what gets taught became something else…

When ‘Keep Your Hands Up’ Stops Working

A while ago a student from a different style joined us. As we went through a few drills, one thing became obvious quite quickly – every time there was any kind of pressure, his hands went straight up to the sides of his head. Tight, high guard. He’d clearly spent a lot of time being…

Where Does a Beginner Turn for Self-Defense?

Where does a beginner turn when they want to learn self-defense? What draws them to a particular martial art or school? For me in the early 1970s, it was Bruce Lee movies and the TV series Kung Fu. Today, it’s social media. Every time I open my phone or switch on my computer, there’s another video…

Why Are We Still Preparing For The Fight First?

A few years ago, I wrote something about untrained people and how unpredictable they can be in a confrontation. The point at the time was simple enough – just because someone hasn’t trained doesn’t mean they’re not dangerous. In many ways, that unpredictability can make them more difficult to deal with. I still agree with…

Self-defense – what are we really training for?

Self-defense – the ability to protect yourself when it matters. We train for it for years, and for some of us, decades. But for what? One moment? Maybe a moment that never even comes. Does that make it any less important, or does it mean we should just treat training as something for fitness and…

There Is No ‘Ready’ Moment

I received a comment recently about the opening of kata – the yoi position – and how it might represent awareness. The point where you recognize something isn’t right and prepare yourself. I understand why people see it that way. But it rests on something that doesn’t really hold up when you look at it…

Reflections on Kata: Why Kata Does Not Show the Setup

I’ve been watching this for years. Someone takes a piece of kata and immediately tries to turn it into a neat sequence. This is the attack, this is the defense, this is what comes next. It all lines up nicely, and on the surface it makes sense. But the more you look at it, the…

The Dangerous Myth of “Nothing Happened to Me”

I recently pointed out the inherent dangers of falling or fighting on hard surfaces like concrete, and, as expected, the responses came in. People sharing their experiences – “I fell off my bike and did a perfect roll”, “I’ve fought on pavement and I’m fine”, “I used to train on concrete all the time.” The underlying sentiment…

Hitting Concrete Isn’t the Same as Tatami

How many times, as a karate-ka, are we told, “Take it to the ground”? “You have to fight on the ground”? Quite a lot, if the comments I receive are anything to go by. Have you ever fallen on concrete – the sidewalk, the pavement? It hurts, right? A senior instructor from my dojo fell…

No Style Is the Best – Context Is

Whenever I write about real-world self-defense, the comments seem to explode into “my style is the best”. I’m not convinced a lot of these people actually train themselves – maybe keyboard warriors, maybe just inexperienced – these comments often seem to revolve around one style in particular: Kyokushin. Now, before anyone accuses me of bashing…

A comment on one of my recent articles caught my attention. Comments often do – they tend to reveal more than the article itself. This one read: “**** self-defense. I teach people to fight.” It made me pause. Is he right? After all, we are practicing a combat art – not playing a game. Much…

Winning Is Not the Goal in Self-Defense

Self-defense and fighting are often spoken about as if they are the same thing. They are not. There is overlap between the two, but they are fundamentally different in both purpose and outcome. This distinction is often misunderstood, particularly because many people are taught physical or fighting skills first when they attend a “self-defense” class….