After I posted my thoughts about the word “osu”, I expected a few people to disagree. But what surprised me was how many long‑time practitioners, including instructors, admitted they weren’t actually sure where the word should be used, or even why they say it at all. . Some people told me they’d been using it…
Tag: Bushido
Respect, Habit, the Word ‘Osu’ – and Where It Doesn’t Belong.
Respect for your teacher is paramount and following instructions is instilled from day one. But sometimes this culture of respect leads to habits that are repeated without thought – phrases, behaviors, and rituals that people copy simply because they’ve seen others do them. . I often receive comments on my articles and messages that consist…
Experience Has Limits: You Cannot Underestimate the Untrained.
(Approx 1 minute 45 second read) Have you ever been attacked outside of the dojo? Have you ever had to deal with someone who was genuinely determined to cause you or your loved ones harm? Have you been knocked to the ground, injured, and then had to get up and run for your life? ….
When Avoidance Isn’t Enough and Walking Away Isn’t Always the Answer.
(Approx 1 minute 10 second read) There are always those who want conflict, who want to fight. . We’re told, again and again, that the sensible response is to de-escalate, walk away, disengage, and not react. And most of the time, that is good advice. . But that advice quietly assumes something important. . It…
The Black Belt: A License to Learn.
(Approx 2 minute 25 second read) Well done. You’ve got your black belt, you’ve reached one of your major goals. It feels great, doesn’t it? You can finally tell everyone you’re a black belt. For some it may have taken years, for others perhaps not so. . For a moment there’s euphoria, maybe a celebration…
It’s Just a Word: ‘Sensei’ – Who Actually Cares? Well, I Do.
(Approx 1 minute 45 second read) I watched an advertisement for a dojo recently. It was a video reel, and although I understand the need for marketing, if you own a dojo and you teach karate, you should at least know how to use the term “sensei”. . If you’re using Japanese terminology in your…
Seeking Solutions: Progress Only Comes When You Look for It.
(Approx 1 minute 35 second read) There is so much hatred in the martial arts world on social media that I sometimes find myself wondering whether it’s all worth it. . I’ve stepped back from closed minded groups and associations, simply focusing on my own path, staying in touch only with the people who genuinely…
Focus on Your Own Path: The Only Authority You Need Is Over Yourself.
(Approx 2 minute 45 second read) Why do people obsess over things? . People obsess for many reasons, and some are more prone to it than others. . You might try to make sense of a situation but can’t quite understand or accept it, so you keep replaying it. Others want reassurance that they were…
Karate Doesn’t Need More Choreography – It Needs Honesty.
(Approx 2 minute 35 second read) In a recent article I talked about learning from others, whether from people or other methods, it’s good to have an open-mind to everything, right? . Of course there are people who are deeply stuck in their ways and unfortunately, here is an example of just that. . A…
Not Every Argument Is Worth Your Time – Experience Teaches You That.
(Approx 2 minute 20 second read) Something a little different today. . People talk a lot about confirmation bias, Dunning–Kruger, and all the psychological reasons why some can’t see past their own viewpoint. You don’t need the labels. You see the behavior every day, people so stuck in their own little world that anything outside…
Standing on Shoulders of Giants: Forging a Personal Path in Karate.
(Approx 2 minute 30 second read) I’m often asked, “Who is your teacher?”, “What style is it you practice?”. Well, I like to say that I’m forging a personal path. . Ultimately, karate-ka who put in the training hours with the right teachers and mentors eventually end up doing their own thing, right? . After…
Lineage, Ego, and the Myth of Inherited Skill.
(Approx 1 minute 55 second read) People love to talk about lineage. Personally, I care more about ability. So, how important is lineage to you? . We all have a martial arts lineage of sorts. Some remain faithful to one, others, perhaps through no fault of their own, have several. There are those who believe…