Personally I believe being polite is the way to go. . I receive many personal messages on social-media and email with just a couple of words. As an example: “where are you?”, “who taught you?”, “how can I learn karate?”, “what is your style?”, “what black-belt do you have?”, “what makes you such an expert…
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Honesty, Integrity, and Skill – What Gives a Martial Arts Title Meaning?
(Approx 2 minute 30 second read) In recent years, it seems that rank and titles in the martial arts have become surprisingly easy to obtain – and very controversial. . Certificates can be printed, titles adopted, and positions claimed with little more than a website and a few followers. . But when we lose sight…
“If anything deserves our protection, it is the authenticity of the art, not the vanity of those who claim to own it.”
(Approx 2 minute 5 second read) If you teach, you’ve probably noticed the difference between the student who can’t get enough and the one who’s just… well, there. Some people walk into the dojo full of enthusiasm and want to absorb everything they possibly can. . Others go through the motions and never quite seem…
Honesty, Integrity, and Skill: The Measure of a Martial Artist.
(Approx 1 minute 50 second read) What exactly has happened in karate? . Somewhere along the way, it seems rank has outpaced skill, and titles are sometimes gained faster than true understanding. . We’ve all seen examples of people switching styles, bypassing normal grade progression, and suddenly holding highly senior positions. The problem isn’t just…
The Most Underrated Skill in Martial Arts: Stop Talking. Start Listening.
(Approx 1 minute 50 second read) In the martial arts, one of the greatest skills we can develop has nothing to do with speed, strength, or technique. It’s the ability to truly listen. . Too often, conversations between martial artists – whether about training methods, kata interpretation, or self-defense – turn into battles of conviction….
When Confidence Becomes a Barrier: Learning to Question Yourself.
(Approx 2 minute 30 second read) I’m sure many of you are aware of the Dunning–Kruger effect – I’ve written about it before. It’s the tendency for people with limited knowledge or skill to overestimate their ability. . But without the ability to recognize your shortcomings, how can you hope to improve? . Here lies…
Respect Isn’t Silence. Martial Arts Without Question Is Just Obedience.
(Approx 2 minute 10 second read) Someone sent me a personal message saying that I “don’t understand the martial arts” and that if I did, I would “show respect”. . I have no idea what article he was referring to – he didn’t say. He just launched into several accusations. . Assumptions like that usually…
A Defining Moment – The Meeting That Redirected Karate.
(Approx 2 minute 25 second read) Today, there are many types of karate. But it’s worth saying what often gets left out: it didn’t used to be this way. . Originally, karate was a method of self-protection – pragmatic and rooted in application. The shift to having ‘many types’ of karate is not something that…
The Warrior Within: Quiet Strength, Ready When Needed.
(Approx 2 minute 25 second read) Some people look like they were born fighters. Of course they’re not – but it feels that way when you see how they step forward while others shrink back. . That’s the warrior within – something you either have or you don’t. . For those of you who aren’t…
Boundaries and Noise – When Integrity Costs You Nothing.
(Approx 1 minute 40 second read) As we grow older, our priorities shift. Time becomes more precious, and we realize how important it is to surround ourselves with people and situations that add value to our lives. . I’ve learned to balance tolerance with boundaries, recognizing that life is too short to waste on dishonesty,…
To Train or Not to Train? The Choice Is Yours.
To train or not to train – do you REALLY want it, or are you just playing at it? . It amazes me when people say, “I’m going to return to training”, or, “I’m going to the gym – I need to get fit”, but never do. I really don’t know why they feel the…
More Than Words on the Wall – The Dojo Kun Means Nothing If You Don’t Live It.
Most dojos have a creed – a Dojo Kun (道場訓) – a list of promises or ideals, hung neatly on the wall. Students recite it at the start of class, bow respectfully, but then forget half of it before they reach the car park. . A creed is only words until you choose to live…