(Approx 1 minute 55 second read) When you find what’s truly right for you in your training, you stop needing to explain it to anyone. . Apart from teaching at the dojo, I train every day. Not to fight, not for show, and not to prove anything. I train because it matters to me. It’s…
Tag: Mind
Self-Defense Starts Long Before Technique: Not Everyone’s Ready to Hit.
(Approx 2 minute 50 second read) After years of writing, I’ve noticed a pattern. I share practical insights from my dojo – like helping a tired, overwhelmed mother feel safer – and inevitably, someone chimes in with, “Well, in my classes, I teach [insert technique here], and it works for me.” . It’s getting predictable…
Thinking Beyond Technique: Self-Defense Isn’t About Techniques (It’s About People).
(Approx 2 minute 50 second read) I recently wrote about helping a new mother with no experience begin learning self-defense. I wrote about mindset, awareness, and small, practical habits that could fit into a very real, very full life. . But as expected, some of the replies were about techniques. What they would teach. Which…
Why Learning to ‘Fight’ Isn’t the First Lesson in Self-Defense.
(Approx 2 minute 50 second read) I was asked recently if I could help a new mother learn some self-defense. . She has a six-month-old child and she has no prior martial arts experience. On top of that, she’s working as well – so her days are full, her sleep is broken, and time for…
Is Your Self-Defense Training Real? Finding Authentic Self-Protection.
(Approx 2 minute 45 second read) Someone asked me, “How do you spot real, effective training – from the kind that’s not? How can you know the difference, especially if you’re training hard?” . You see it everywhere these days, a dojo on every street corner and in every strip mall, many of them have…
The Way and the World: When the ‘Way’ Forgets Reality.
(Approx 2 minute 55 second read) Every so often, a comment comes along that is so removed from reality. Well… you decide. . “As a sword arts practitioner (kendo and iaido) I do not understand this obsession with karate having to be effective for self defense or ‘street fight’.” . He continues: “Martial arts became…
Recreation or Reality? Self-Protection – It’s Still About Getting Home Safely.
(Approx 2 minute 20 second read) Self-defense has always really been about one thing: getting home safely. Even if we go back to the early days of Okinawa, that was the goal. It wasn’t about fighting or consensual dueling. . Karate, or its predecessor, was never created for sport or for testing yourself toe-to-toe. It…
Training Hard, Learning Little: Not All Effort Leads to Effectiveness.
(Approx 2 minute 40 second read) The dojo, it should make you sweat and demand discipline – but what about when the instructor truly believes they’re teaching the pinnacle of self-defense, yet their methods fall painfully short in real-world violence? . Some dojo pride themselves on intensity. Students train hard, push limits, and earn their…
Too Many Want to Be Right. Too Few Want to Know.
(Approx 2 minute 45 second read) I wrote recently that no matter how much evidence you provide, people still will not see past their sometimes preconceived rhetoric. . You know, real martial artists are okay with it when they find out they are wrong. And to me, that is one of the greatest gifts that…
Real Knife Defense Starts With One Priority: Shut Down the Weapon.
(Approx 2 minute 50 second read) Being attacked with a knife, terrifying. I have seen the results of many of these attacks in my past careers. Some of them fatal. . Very few instructors have experience with defending against knife attacks, yet they teach it in their dojo. . But most knife defense training has…
As Rare as a Quiet Pub on a Friday Night: What Students Deserve to Know.
(Approx 2 minute 25 second read) What motivates phony martial artists?… Is it ego, money, or something else? . I’m sure by now everyone has heard the term McDojo – a place that’s found its way onto streets, into strip malls, and community halls all over the world. . What actually is a McDojo? ….
Old Karate, New Words: Understanding Karate’s Original Intent.
(Approx 2 minute read) Imagine stepping into an early Okinawan karate dojo around the turn of the 20th century. It was probably someone’s back garden, surrounded by a wall or fencing so no one could see what was going on. Unlike today, the environment was very different. . Teachers of the time passed down their…