(Approx 1 minute 40 second read) As we grow older, our priorities shift. Time becomes more precious, and we realize how important it is to surround ourselves with people and situations that add value to our lives. . I’ve learned to balance tolerance with boundaries, recognizing that life is too short to waste on dishonesty,…
Tag: Humility
When the Syllabus Stops Working: If You Don’t Ask, You’ll Never Know.
(Approx 2 minute 5 second read) “You cannot get educated by this self-propagating system in which people study to pass exams, and teach others to pass exams, but nobody knows anything. You learn something by doing it yourself, by asking questions, by thinking, and by experimenting.” – Richard Feynman, theoretical physicist . I wrote an…
Putting Substance Back Into Karate: It Must Mean Something.
(Approx 1 minute 45 second read) What on earth has karate become? . Yesterday, I was sent a video of a well-known karateka – a successful competitor with deep roots in karate. Someone with rank, experience, and a famous legacy behind them. And yet what I heard left me shaking my head. . They were…
Karate: Stop Bowing to Dogma – Question Everything.
(Approx 2 minute 45 second read) The majority of karate today is plagued by dogma. Let me explain. . After the Second World War, Okinawa was in ruins. Many of the teachers who started up again back then had learned the ‘school karate’ model – all about building strong bodies and disciplined minds. Not every…
Why I Keep Repeating Myself: Repetition Keeps Karate Honest.
Karate is something you learn properly when you have a good teacher – someone who explains things clearly, allows you to question, and has the depth of knowledge for you to grasp the principles behind what you’re doing. Then, when all this is conveyed, you repeat it – over and over – until it becomes…
Stop Pretending – You Either Train or You Don’t.
My recent article, “To train or not to train. The choice is yours”, brought up a few comments about reasons for not training. . Money seemed to be at the forefront, along with a dojo closing. . I asked one person who commented – he said his home life is problematic and he doesn’t have…
To Train or Not to Train? The Choice Is Yours.
To train or not to train – do you REALLY want it, or are you just playing at it? . It amazes me when people say, “I’m going to return to training”, or, “I’m going to the gym – I need to get fit”, but never do. I really don’t know why they feel the…
More Than Words on the Wall – The Dojo Kun Means Nothing If You Don’t Live It.
Most dojos have a creed – a Dojo Kun (道場訓) – a list of promises or ideals, hung neatly on the wall. Students recite it at the start of class, bow respectfully, but then forget half of it before they reach the car park. . A creed is only words until you choose to live…
When the Enemy Comes, Greet Him with a Smile.
(Approx 1 minute 35 second read) A reminder that the real fight is often won in the mind. . For those of us interested in self-defense, awareness is key – being aware of yourself, your surroundings, and your environment. . But what does that really mean? . It’s about spotting pre-incident indicators, practicing good positioning,…
Protect Yourself – But Think First: The Art of Avoiding Trouble.
(Approx 2 minute 10 second read) It seems that self-defense is a topic people just can’t get their heads around, if my recent articles are anything to go by. . Instructors in particular often seem convinced that you have to fight first. Yet, many tell me they understand the importance of avoiding the fight, but…
Self-Defense Isn’t a Game: Time to Get Real.
(2 minute 5 second read) Self-defense isn’t just about you – it could be about protecting those who rely on you. . My last article sparked another round of debate – no surprise there. It was apparently shared to another page without my knowing and the comments went wild there too. That happens. What doesn’t…
If You Think Fighting Is Self-Defense, Think Again: Can You Protect Someone Without Fighting?
(Approx 2 minute 45 second read) This is a follow-up to my recent article about fighting and self-defense – mainly because, based on the comments, it’s clear many people misunderstood the point. So let’s clear a few things up. . The fear of an attack can make many people want to fight back immediately. But…