Someone commented on one of my articles recently that today, you don’t really need training for self-defense and violence is exaggerated.
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I find this type of attitude very shortsighted. And while for some, you may be lucky enough to live your whole life without ever encountering violence of any kind, unfortunately, there are those who frequently experience violence and may benefit from regular training in their everyday lives.
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Personal safety is of the utmost importance, and encountering a mugging or some kind of violent experience can be a frightening and potentially dangerous situation.
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An incident which happened recently on one of our community trains, involved a 61-year-old woman who was returning home from work very late in the evening. When she was assaulted by two men attempting to steal her purse. Unfortunately, instead of surrendering it, she resisted, leading to a physical assault involving punches and kicks. Sadly, it has been reported that her survival is unlikely.
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In such distressing situations where personal safety is compromised, it is crucial to prioritize immediate well-being.
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If confronted by assailants seeking to steal belongings, the recommended course of action is to prioritize compliance over resistance.
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While it may be instinctive to resist, especially when it involves personal belongings, the potential risks of physical harm far outweigh the value of material possessions.
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Personal possessions can be replaced, but unfortunately physical injuries may have devastating or more lasting consequences.
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While it is crucial to prioritize your safety, understanding the best ways to handle such incidents is essential.
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As a martial artist, I’m sure your thoughts turn to fighting, but in many cases, complying with the mugger’s demands is the safest course of action. Handing over valuables reduces the likelihood of physical harm and increases the chances of a safer resolution.
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Confrontation can lead to violence, and it is essential to avoid escalating the situation. While self-defense techniques can be valuable in certain scenarios, attempting to fight back during a mugging may result in severe consequences.
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You must prioritize avoiding harm over protecting material possessions.
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Being mugged is a terrifying experience, a violent intrusion into your sense of security. I receive many comments about fighting first in this situation, but confronted with this sudden threat, the question arises: do you fight for your possessions, or surrender them to prioritize your safety?
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Your Ego may tell you to fight, but the answer, harsh as it may be, is rarely straightforward. Material possessions, while valuable, pale in comparison to physical well-being.
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Experts in personal safety and law enforcement, overwhelmingly advise against resisting muggers. The risk of escalating the situation, potentially leading to serious injury or even death, far outweighs the loss of a phone or wallet.
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Yet, the emotional toll of relinquishing your belongings can be immense. You may feel violated, ashamed, robbed of your sense of control, and as a martial artist, the nagging question of; “should I have fought back”?
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Remember, your safety must come first. No phone, wallet, or jewelry is worth risking your life. By prioritizing your safety and cooperating with the mugger, you increase your chances of getting through the ordeal unharmed and able to focus on healing and moving forward.
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While the emotional impact of a mugging can be significant, prioritizing your well-being above material possessions is crucial. So remember; avoidance is your best self-defense tool.
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