Fighting is not always the best option.

“Fighting is not always the best option.” ??
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Adam Carter 7th dan Ryukyu Karate Jutsu ~ Shuri Dojo
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Every individual, at some point in his or her life, has been victimized, exploited, or bullied in some form or another. Whether this relates to being bullied as a child, an adult being singled out at the workplace, or in more serious cases, an individual being mugged on the street. What the common feature of these unfortunate scenarios is the victim’s inability to avoid, escape, or resist.
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Fear is a powerful weapon, and a liability for those who do not prepare. If one does not take measures to develop yourself both mentally and physically, you will continue to find yourself in situations where you are at a disadvantage and risk.
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At its very essence, martial arts is training for improvement of the body, mind, and spirit. The combative aspects of martial arts, while important, should only be used in self-defense as a last resort. While martial arts will certainly teach you various techniques and strategies that will help you in a physical confrontation, the main lesson that it aims to teach us is learning when not to fight. A real martial artist is able to discern whether a conflict can be resolved without violence.
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Integrating the actual spirit of martial arts training can only come with the right kind of practice. Initially you may view your training simply as a means by which you can learn to fight. However, martial arts teaches individuals much more than that. Through a deeper training and understanding, your character itself will be positively affected. Martial arts training helps individuals build focus, endurance, confidence, and most of all respect for self and others.
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The greatest victory is always found in resolving a conflict without using any violence. While it is certainly true that certain cases may call for combat, this must always be viewed as a last resort. If you are looking to stand up to someone, martial arts should teach you to do so in an assertive yet respectful manner.
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“Conflict cannot survive without your participation.” ~ Wayne Dyer

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